It’s been almost 7 years since we set up shop here in Vicksburg. Hard to believe right? We’ve had lots of ups and down, highs and lows, expected and unexpected things happen over the past 80 months, not the least of which has been a 2-year pandemic that almost bankrupted us (it actually still might if things don’t pick up pretty soon). But, that’s not the point of this post. The point is, I’ve learned a few things since I started being an innkeeper.
I used to tell people who were interested in getting into the B & B business that the most important quality an innkeeper should possess is flexibility. So often things don’t go as expected and last minute changes have to be made. Sometimes guests show up wanting all kinds of crazy, out of the norm, stuff. You have to be able to think on your feet and be able to adjust when practicable.
But then other times I think that being flexible is probably not the single most important factor. Being firm and having the ability to say no is a very strong skill that I recommend every innkeeper adopt. I’m not that person, but I need to be. I often make exceptions that I end up regretting. I’m learning though.
But, recently, very recently, I learned that the absolute number 1 rule of innkeeping is that everyone in the house cannot get sick at the same time. That is a hard and fast rule. It’s horrendous when it happens. Being sick is never fun, but when you have to get up, show up, and put on a smiling face, when you feel like crap and just want to crawl under the covers is one of the hardest things to do. I know, because we all just did that here at Casa Baer.
My husband was the first to get sick. Fever, chills, runny nose. He stayed in bed for almost 2 days. By the second day, I had similar symptoms but a houseful of guests that needed attention. I wasn’t as bad as him – at first – so we were sort of able to tag team between breakfast, room cleaning, and check-in. We tried to have at least one of us be up and awake at all times. We took turns sleeping and resting.
My husband was feeling almost back to normal after about 36 hours. I kept getting worse. On my second day, my dad got sick. REALLY sick. Which meant, I had to take care of him while fighting off my own, whatever it was ailing me. On my third day of feeling totally body-slammed, we took at-home covid tests. Negative. Good news. But, I wasn’t getting much better and my dad was getting worse.
Somehow, we managed to drag ourselves around and get everyone checked in and fed in the morning, without too much guest interaction. Except my dad. He wasn’t making much progress in the getting better department. Twice I was going to take him to the hospital and twice he adamantly refused to go. After about 5 days he finally showed signs of improvement. Whew.
I’m still fighting, what I can only assume is allergies (given the extremely high pollen count and my lingering symptoms), but able to perform most of my usual duties without having to rest every 15 minutes. I have an annoying cough that won’t go away, itchy eyes, and I’m tired all the time, but hey, that’s life in the springtime pretty much anywhere.
So, there you have it. Rule number 1 if you’re ever considering innkeeping. Stay healthy and stay away from your significant other if that person is sick. You’ll thank me later.
Have you guys been noticing an uptick in pollen counts in your areas? Are allergies plaguing you? What do you do when your entire family is sick at the same time but you still have a business to run?
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Fun fact about me: This is the first time since moving to Vicksburg that I’ve experienced allergies. I think it’s because for 2 years we’ve all been masked up. Now that the masks are off, my sinuses are freaking out.
Original post by Jansen Schmidt, March 2022. Images by Google and giphy.com
I can’t imagine having guests to take care of while being sick … you are a tougher person than I am! When I’m sick, I just want to hide under the covers and be left alone. Glad that you are all on the mend, but those allergies can really make you miserable. I take OTC allergy meds daily and there are days when that doesn’t even help. Hang in there!
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Fortunately, neither me nor Corey get “sick” very often. We’re generally very healthy and rarely – I mean rarely – are in-bed sick. We were both in-bed sick this time. I haven’t been this sick since my chemo treatments. And I was really worried about my dad, who did not seem to be getting better.
We’re finally all almost back to normal. It was a tough few days, but we made it. Hopefully that won’t happen again. At least for a very long time.
Thanks for stopping by today. Try to enjoy the beautiful spring weather despite the pollens.
Patricia
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My husband hopes that the cold snap we got after the trees bloomed would knock out a lot of the pollen. So far it hasn’t helped – our allergies have been bad, both here and in Ohio, where we went this weekend, and it SNOWED. Ugh. I can’t imagine dealing with customers when you’re sick – I hope you feel better soon!
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It was really hard to resist the urge to cough and dab at my runny nose when I was around the guests. The last thing I wanted was someone freaking out because they thought I had covid. I don’t need that. Glad our tests were negative. I did take some allergy medicine but it made me pretty sleepy. Fighting the urge to sleep was really hard, too.
But, we’re all on the mend, feeling better, and only coughing every half hour or so. Still annoying, but way better.
Try to enjoy the springtime despite the blooming things. Summer will be here before you know it. Unfortunately there are summer allergies, too. (head on desk). Thanks for visiting today. Have a great week.
Patricia
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That would be the worst, seeing to a bunch of other people when all you want to do is crawl into bed and tap out. You’re definitely stronger than me. I’m sure I’d be a terrible innkeeper, especially when sick. I’m glad you’re feeling *mostly* better. The allergies in Oregon are starting up too, and since I refused to waste a rare sunny Saturday staying inside, I was feeling it!
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Oh man, I’m telling you, plastering on that smile wasn’t easy. Stifling the urge to cough or sniff or blow my nose was harder. I was out the kitchen door and to the table as quick as humanly possible without spilling food. I prayed no one would ask me a question. I’m sure our guests those few days thought we weren’t very friendly, but oh well, we were trying to stay away from them.
My husband was able to get about 20 hours of uninterrupted sleep, which is why I think he got better faster than me. I had to nap in short sessions and my coughing kept me up at night until I found some amazing nighttime cough medicine. That’s when I started noticing real improvement, when I got a good night’s sleep.
Anyway, it’s all behind us now and we’re back to normal.
Thanks for visiting. Have a lovely, hopefully pollen-free week.
Patricia
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Sorry to hear about this stressful situation, but relieved you are through it OK.
As for me, I don’t pay much attention to the news reports on pollen count. I just go outside with a ruler and if the green pollen on my car is over 1 inch thick, I stay in for the rest of the day.
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Yeah, when the cars turn yellow here, it’s bad. This is the first year I’ve been plagued by allergies since we’ve moved here, which leads me to believe that perhaps it was some kind of illness and not allergies, but dang, I was really sick.
Anyway, we’re all back to functioning at almost normal speed. It was a crazy few days, but we muddled through.
Thanks for stopping by. Stay in if the streets are green.
Patricia
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Patricia – glad to read you and Corey are feeling better. No one enjoys being sick and while I have to create sub plans when I am out or can’t be at school,you have to be there, there isn’t a sub you can call and the beat does go on. Take care and keep sharing those insights of being an innkeeper. Peace.
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Thanks Clay. We really do have a backup plan in extreme emergencies or when we absolutely cannot be here for some reason, but we hate to have to use it. That probably should be rule #1 – have a back-up plan. Ha.
Thanks for visiting and enjoy your day. You should be on the downside of this school year already. Time flies.
Patricia
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